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| Basic Premise of Exchange Theory |
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| Relationships based on what is exchanged between two people. Humans base relationships on benefits, costs, and profits expected. Attempt to describe or predict outcome of relationship. |
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| Basic Premise of Exchange Theory |
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| Relationships based on what is exchanged between two people. Humans base relationships on benefits, costs, and profits expected. Attempt to describe or predict outcome of relationship. |
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| Subjective to person in relationship. The rewards, costs, losses, etc. are based on their feelings. |
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| Subjective to person in relationship. The rewards, costs, losses, etc. are based on their feelings. |
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| anything that meets a person's needs; completely subjective; a reward for one person may not be a reward for another, subjective |
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| anyting not preceived as a benefit; what a person does to get reward |
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| Outcomes = Rewards - Costs |
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| Rewards outweigh costs (Profit=Rewards>Costs) |
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| Costs outweigh Rewards (Loss=Rewards |
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| mutual giving and receiving; people feel slated if don't sense reciprocity in relationship; do so much receive little in return; doesn't have to be exact thing exchanged just in equal terms |
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| perceived fairness and justice |
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| Principle of Least Interest in ET |
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| person with least invested has less to lose so have more power; can do whatever they want; person can just walk away |
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| Principle of Resources and Power |
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| Person with most resources has most pwoer; resources could be more money. friend support, equity |
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| Premise of Family Developmental Theory |
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| began in 1930s with Great Depression; men returned home and wanted things back to normal |
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| Premise of Family Developmental Theory |
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| began in 1930s with Great Depression; men returned home and wanted things back to normal |
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| falls flat with newborne babies and mothers; mothers kee loving baby with no love in return; people have own reward system where they don't always have to receieve things from others |
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| Key Concept, Family Life Cycle, of FDT |
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| division of time in lifespan of family; it is a stage theory(each stage builds on the other stages); stages depend on addition or subtraction of family members |
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| Typical Stages of family life are marked off by several factors in FDT |
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| based on the youngest child |
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| Stage 1 of Family Cycle: Married Couples |
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| got married; start of family;setting up themselves; stabilizing income; a lot of time to spend together getting to know one another |
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| Stage 2 of Family Cycle: Child Bearing Families |
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| trying to get pregnant; saving money; looking at maternity leave and schedules; focus switches to baby from focus on couple; big change |
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| Stage 3 of Family Cycle: Families with Pre-School Children |
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| money for daycare, first times for baby; trying to maintain income and emotions of baby; focused on who will work |
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| Stage 4 of Family Cycle: Families with School Aged Children |
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| best intersest of child;schools, after school activities, finances, homework |
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| Stage 5 of Family Cycle: Families with Teenagers |
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| dating, arguements, driving, curfews; teens struggling to find themself; there is a struggle for independence; saving for college, college acceptance, scholarships |
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| Stage 6 of Family Cycle: Familes as Launching Centers |
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| transition phase; parent question their ability is there still a closeness to the family |
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| Stage 6 of Family Cycle: Middle-aged Parents |
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| refocusing on couple; reintroductio, reacquainting; focus on retirement and where to live |
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| Stage 7: Aging Family Members |
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| ends with death of spouse ; retirement; grandkids; finding satisfication for later days; don't need as much; don't want to care for grandkids |
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| family grows in conventional stages; family starts with marriage |
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| only 7% of families fit into family system that theory is trying to explain, it doesn't really work well; just pioneer idea |
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| Definition of Systems THeory |
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| A system is a set of elements standing in interaction. Anything that affects one part also affects the other parts. Systems can be concret, abstract, both concrete and abstrat, large or small, or a family |
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| all things apart of system will affect you and you in return will affect the things |
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| how easy it is to get in or out of a family system; defines who is in or out of a system |
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| Physical Boundaries in ST |
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| fences, door being opened/closed; actual physical preimeters that define boundaries |
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| Psychological Boundaries of ST |
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| values and rules of family |
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| parts of system that make up family; spousal, parent-child, and sibling-sibling; left out other family members |
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| the person in charge; who's running house and making rules |
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| Process Characteristics of ST |
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| the relative way or difficuly outsite persons or elements experience moving into/out of a system. Varies from closed to random |
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| Process Characteristics of ST |
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| boudary issues can cause problems |
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| no one comes over; no information from outside; not able to give or take infro; hard time changing; very rigid |
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| door always open; no idea who family members actually are; no sense of ownership; everyone in; never identification of who is in or who is out; hard to find head of family; chaos |
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| some boundaries on some issues; most healthy; semi-permeable |
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| a whole lot of flexibility; do open and do close; no reason for change in openness |
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| the process of information; input and output |
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| [image]
process of chain reaction a system; get circular logic from Info Process |
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| Cohesion (Family Closeness) in ST |
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| emotion bonding of family; thing of 'we' of family; healthy balance |
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| there is no 'you'; everyone knows everyone's business; no anatonomy; high bonding |
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| no bonding; very individualistic; high anatomy |
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| Adaptibily (Familt changeability) |
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| ability of family to change |
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| Chaotic (changeability) in ST |
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| can't change rules because there are no rules |
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| Rigid (Changeability) in ST |
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| won't change don't have to |
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| Establishmet of Congruent Family Issues and Themes: Rules |
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| Define how the family functions |
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| clearly states; everyone knows them |
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| rules on the downlow; rules that are implied but never states(drugs, mental illnesses, alcohol, etc) |
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| sequence of steps (usually for emergencies) for specific events |
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| new rules created to deal with situation |
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| Definitition of Structural Analysis |
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| three ego states (pattern/feeling consistant with behavior. all states are in people just one in more predominate |
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| thoughts and feelings taken from outside authority figure; person tells someone what to do even if not parent; take on parent rule |
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| Critical Controlling Parent |
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| controlling; telling others what they ought to do; very rigid in beliefs |
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| caring; try to take care of others; tries helping others |
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| caring; try to take care of others; tries helping others |
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| arcaic beliefs or opinions; try to impose them on others; e.g. father in My Big Fat Greek Wedding "You're a woman, you should be married." |
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| acts on impulses and thoughts/feelings |
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| anything goes, spontaneous, cureous, loving |
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| Behaves knowing mothing is watching, complient for now; desire is there but doesn't act on it |
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| sneaky; manipulative; trying to get away with something; makes up elaborate stories |
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| handle finances; responsible; factual information; very objectual; acts on data and facts |
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| Analysis of Transactions and types |
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| three types are complementary, crossed, ulterior |
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| message from one ego state gets predicted response from other ego state; when question and answer match |
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| message sent receives unexpected response; poor way of communication; no connection between Q&A |
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| say one thing but mean another; different message behind what is said; transaction is about what is being sent not about how it is received |
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| compliments; honest expressions; good listening; can be nonverbal |
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| insult; verbal and physical abuse; active |
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| Discounts of Disconfirmations |
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| ignoring; withdrawaling attention; not acknowledging presence; neglect |
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| denial of stroke; try to deny stroke; low selfesteem can't take compliment; not healthy |
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| concept of self and world |
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| I'm not okay---you're not okay |
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| angry people; scary people; don't care about anyone; no regard for their safety or public safety; everyone is worthless; suicidicial; homicidial |
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| sees self as worthless and everyone can do it better; compare selves to others; low self esteem |
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| narcassitic; never do wrong; always someone else's fault the problem is with world; have no faults of own |
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| most healthy; have enough confidence that you can gives others compliments without diminishing youself |
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| Strengths of Transactional Analysis |
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| detail oriented; easy to apply to almost any situtation |
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| Weaknesses of Transactional Analysis |
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